As expected, a married woman has to take care of several things which could lead her to neglect and undermine the importance of sex. Most often, her sexual life is also a representation of her real life. So, if you have been getting over involved in the mundane day to day activities more so often, it could have been reflected in your sexual life as well. So to get back the exciting and happening sexual life, encourage your wife to break away from the not so serious side of life for a change. You can use the following tips to get your wife in the mood if she has been reluctant too often lately.
1. Stop arguing (don’t be a dick!)
This is important. If you want to have a satisfying sexual life, it is also important to make sure that you have a satisfying emotional relationship with your wife. Fighting and arguing too often can lead to emotional drainage which will definitely affect your sexual life.
Stop arguing for a few days and overlook some of her shortcomings. It is not necessary to point out every tiny difference between you and your partner. When you act too overbearing, she will not only want to quit having sex, but withdraw from the relationship as well.
2. Liven up the teenage romance
If you have been complaining about the dull sexual life you have now and why things are not the same as they were when you started dating, then you might also want to check what else has changed in your relationship. Are you as passionate and romantic as you were when things started?
If you want to bring back the same passion into your life, then start off by giving her small gifts very now and then, bring her flowers and pay compliments. Try being as romantic as you were when you first started dating. However, you do not want to look too cheesy by overdoing it. But this will definitely make her want to fall in love with you all over again.
3. Help with her daily chores
Simple everyday chores like cleaning the house, fixing breakfast, preparing meals and dropping the kids off at school can be very tiring and burdensome. If you really want to have her reciprocation in the bed, then you should also make sure that she is not getting too burdened. Sharing the household chores with her would be a great idea.
4. Stay in shape
It will naturally be a huge turn off if you look all bloated and unattractive, unlike the way you were during your early days. So put in some effort and try to stay fit so that you look good even when you are naked. Start doing some exercises. This will also help you increase your stamina and perform well in bed. You may also want to do a little grooming like taking off excess body hair and keeping a good hairstyle. This will surely get her in the mood and you will have a happening sexual life just the way you wanted.